A serious place to meet someone serious.
FindLove is a private place for Sri Lankans who are serious about meeting someone. Verify your identity and profession, and show it with a badge on your profile. You decide what is visible, to whom, and when. No fees, no ranking, no browsing by strangers.
Quality over quantity
A considered community instead of an endless feed. Fewer profiles, better conversations, and no incentive for us to keep you swiping.
Your identity, your terms
Show your profession, education and background while keeping your name and face private until you choose otherwise.
Trust you can see
Verify your identity, profession or education and it shows as a badge. Look for badges like Identity Verified before you connect.
Show people you are who you say you are.
Verification is optional — join and start meeting people straight away, then verify when you are ready. Each check takes a few minutes, earns a badge on your profile, and the documents you submit are never shown to other members.
Join and get verified →Verify your identity
Upload an NIC, passport or driving licence and complete a short live camera check. This confirms you are a real, single person behind one account.
Confirm your profession
Verify your work or education with a professional email, registration number or letter. You choose whether the detail is shown, or only the fact that it was verified.
Human review
A member of our team reviews every submission. Anything unclear is queried directly with you — never guessed at.
Wear the badge
Each approved check appears on your profile as a badge, such as Identity Verified. You can also keep parts of your profile for verified members only.
Documents are encrypted, reviewed by a human, and deleted from our servers once your status is confirmed. We keep the result, not the file.
Share as little, or as much, as you like.
Your profile is built in layers. Some things are open to matches, some only to people you accept as friends, and some stay with you. Move a field between layers at any time.
The default: members who have verified their identity. Enough for someone to judge compatibility — and nothing that identifies you.
Anonymous by default
Start with profession, education and district only. Your name and photographs stay sealed until you release them to a specific person.
Friends you accept
Social links, family background, wider photo albums and anything else personal sit behind an accepted-friend request — never behind a payment.
Revocable, always
Withdraw access and the field closes immediately. Screenshots are discouraged and repeat offenders are removed.
Free for every member. Genuinely.
Paid matrimony platforms make money when you stay single. We would rather you left. There is no premium tier, no boosted placement, no charge to send a message, and no advertising against your data.
Made for Sri Lankans — wherever life has taken them.
At home in Sri Lanka
People who want to meet someone with the same values and intentions, without the whole island knowing they are looking.
And abroad
Members in London, Sydney, Toronto, Dubai and Singapore who want a partner who understands where they came from — and can talk honestly about where they will settle.
Trust and safety, taken seriously.
The rules are deliberately strict. Members who behave badly are removed, lose their badges, and cannot verify a new account under another name.
One account each
A verified identity belongs to a single account. A removed member cannot verify again under a new name.
No unsolicited contact
Messages open only when both sides agree. There is no way to buy your way into someone's inbox.
Reported once, reviewed by a human
Every report is read by our team. Harassment or misrepresentation costs a member their account and their badges.
Minimum retention
We hold verification results, not documents, and delete your data in full within 30 days of you leaving.
FindLove is coming to iPhone and Android.
The same private community, in your pocket. Every privacy control you set on the web comes with you, and nothing about you becomes more visible because you are on a phone.
Discover and express interest
Browse compatible members and pass or express interest, wherever you are.
Requests and conversations
Accept friend requests and keep your conversations going in one place.
Notifications on your terms
Choose which profiles notify you about new messages, or switch them off entirely.
Verify from your phone
Submit your identity documents and follow the review without opening a laptop.
Join on the web today. The app signs in with the same account, so your profile, requests and conversations will be waiting for you. Create free account →
Questions members ask.
Anything else, write to us below and a person will answer.
No. Many members never publish either. You can present yourself entirely through profession, education, values and background, and release identifying details to one person at a time.
Talk to a person, not a helpdesk.
Questions about verification, privacy, or partnering with us. We reply within two working days.
Join free. Verify when you are ready.
Join a community where nothing is public, trust is shown with a badge rather than claimed, and no one is charged for the chance to be met properly.
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